"The Pursuit of vanity robs you of your sanity and a vain man is like a insane man".... I came up with it

I would say I am an above average young man. Just trying to make it. Being single and being human I am attracted to the opposite sex. When I look at a girl there may be a physical attraction or not, that dose not qualify me to date them nor dose it disqualify them. I would like to rather get to know the girl on the inside. Physical beauty is only skin deep. Is it that hard to believe that nice guys do exists. Is it outrageous for me to make a comment, that your body is not the only thing that I am interested in?


Being a former Dj I have dated a lot of very beautiful gals. But I have fallen in love only once with a gal who did not even come close to being in the same league physicaly . She was two leagues above them when I looked at her from the inside. She was not with me cause I took her to the hottest club in town. She was with me cause she loved me. She made me a better person. I may be in love now but wouldn’t know cause the girl who and I care about and myself has not discussed it.


Ladies if I can look past the physical appearance and want to get to know you the real you. Why cant women look past my flaws. Why can’t you look at me for me and not disqualify me for not working out and having a six pac any more. May be I am just meeting the wrong women. Would you rather have a guy who I used to be? A dj and guy who played organized sports with a cigarette in one hand a glass in the other and woman around my neck. Or would you rather have a guy who has been there done that and has change.



Ladies please comment and give me your opinions on

Is life all bout vanity?

Do women like bad boys more than a good guy?

Should I just be a jerk again to be in love again?