We want pre nup - Kanye West

There are about a dozen or more songs that talk about pre-nups. The one that comes to mind is KANYE WEST’s Gold digger, it has a line that says “we want pre nup”


Most women will disagree with a pre-nup. According to these women, if you need a pre-nup you believe that the marriage is not going to work.

A prenuptial agreement is between two people dealing with financial and other decisions in the unlikely event of a marriage ending.


All married couples have a “prenup” – it is known as “divorce law.” Some people may be unhappy with the way divorce law work, and would prefer to take control of their own possessions, rather than leave it in some one else’s hands. In these cases, it makes a lot of sense to get a customized pre-nup.


Post-nups agreements are similar to pre nups agreements, except that they are completed after a marriage

I think pre-nups are a necessity in marriages even more so in cases of arranged marriages.

For more information why arranged marriages should have pre-nups, check out my other blog http://www.arrangedorlove.blogspot.com/

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The Stresses of Life

I have came across more than 1 person that is stressed this week. So many people have told me or I have seen facebook statuses that they are stressed, mad at school, etc. I know I am one of the people that are stressed too. All of these people are my friends and they all keep saying how stressed they are and it makes me just want to not be their friend anymore. We need to give all are worries and stresses over to God. He can meet all of our needs. I did not say some, I said all. This means that if you have money issues God will meet that need in however He sees fit. If its being worried over being in a relationship or not, give it to God and He will grant you His desire for your life. If you have car problems, yes, this is a stress of mine and another friend, then God will provide something for you. I am sure there are more worries and stresses I could list off but that is beside the point. Remember the verse. Cast your cares on the Lord, for he cares for you. I don't remember the reference but this verse is so true.



In conclusion, now that I have vented to whoever reads this blog, remember God is all-powerful, all-knowing, and that He loves you more than anything. We are more important to Him than His angels or any animal, plant, star, etc. God will provide in anyway He sees fit. Remember when life gets you down, to think and be positive. When parents start bugging you about relationships and financial issues, give it all to God. If you are meant to be in a relationship, then trust God that He will provide the perfect person for you. If you are meant to have financial stability, then God will provide the perfect job for that. Give all your worries to God. I hope and pray that this post will help people out.

Posted by Mindy
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The Contract

My family back in India and America are constantly hinting that I should get married. During my last visit to India I was even introduced to prospective matches. I even had friends and family try to set me up on dates and offer to pay membership costs on dating sites. I can’t forget the occasional email of a gal who they think would be a good match. All of this to get me married.

One of my friends, whose family is constantly trying to talk him into marriage says “Marriage is or has become a legalized institution of prostitution.” He says this cause he believes marriage is no longer for better or worst. There is always some thing that is a motivating factor for the marriage. Be it stability, security or a big old diamond ring.

It seems like Love प्यार is no more the reason why people get married. Today it’s more a business venture or for the tax brakes and other reasons. Most arranged marriages in my opinion are business ventures. Celebrities claim to be married but do not sign on the dotted line because their lawyers are still working out the prenup agreement even after weeks of the so called ceremony. Some time celebrities get married for 48 hrs or less as a publicity stunt. People will disagree with me about marriage being a business venture , then why is the divorce rate so high? In a business you can walk out of a venture if you’re not happy with it and the same is happening with marriage. I thought marriage was for better or worst then why is there an option out?

A wise man once told me “marriage is a contract be ready to wheel and deal do not let one party call the shots. Go into it ready to negotiate. The other party in the marriage may claim to have the upper hand but in reality on one person can call all the shots. You are a signatory to the contract and you will have a say. A pretty face does nothing and all your past achievements should be left at the door. If She/ he may portray that they still has options but do you know if they do. They may claim they had options before they signed the contract in a heated argument with you. Don’t believe it my friend for if they did why would they waste their time trying you? If their option is now a way out then they aren’t for you”

What has marriage become, just another business transaction?

What has happened to the sanctity of marriages? is it a joke where one can just walk out of if you are tired of the other person?

Has the meaning of marriage been lost?

Do we need a piece of paper to tell us love प्यार is legitimate?

Why do men/women change their Faith to get married with some one who has another religious Faith. Is it because you are in love with that person. What happened to loving your Faith. Shouldn't your religious Faith come before marriages of convenience and stability?